When the Sun in your chart forms an aspect to another person’s North Node
When your Sun is conjunct your partner’s North Node
, one of the major themes of your relationship is developing each other’s talents and strengths. This contact is a powerful one. Instant friendship is probable, but if there is any hesitance, it is likely on the part of the North Node person. The Sun person expresses many of the qualities that the North Node person is intuitively drawn to expressing, and any reluctance on the Node person’s part really represents a fear of progress. More probably, this relationship is attractive and carries with it some unspoken promise of growth. There is a feeling of “going somewhere” through this relationship. You are likely to be quite active together, spurring each other on frequently.
When your Sun is conjunct your partner’s South Node (therefore it is in opposition to your partner’s North Node)
, this relationship can be revolutionary in terms of personal growth. The friendship between you is instant. In fact, you are likely to find each other very familiar even on first meeting. Your partner will quite naturally reveal your inner strengths. The caution here is that you may pull your partner into the past. You will feel safe to your partner, and he or she runs the danger of avoiding key issues he or she needs to face through North Node lessons via your association. You may not encourage each other to take on new adventures, finding it all too easy to slip into a familiar pattern. Your partner might eventually feel that you are coming on too strongly, or that you are too clingy, dependent, or pushy. You might feel your partner is too passive, not involved enough, or pulling away. The ties that bind you, however, are very strong.