Eros represents our awareness of our mortality. Because we know we are going to die, we continually recreate feelings (confirmation, if you will) of our own vitality. We can so do in a Leonine way?—for example, through romance, bearing children, and creativity. Eros love is very self-centered. Eros is, indeed, turned on by the idea that they are arousing someone else, but this kind of “feedback” is very much used to feed our own need to feel alive and vital.
Eros in Aries:
Eros posited in Aries, a fiery sign wants action, competition, confrontation and victory in life. Eros in Aries can make a game of love complete. The more impossible the relationship, the more ardent he becomes in this sign.
As the first of the fire signs, Eros spends and consumes tremendous amounts of energy in the pursuit and capture of his territory. Eros in Aries makes the native vey active and perpetually busy lover. Eros, whether in the chart of a male or female, can exhibit traditional romantic behavior He is robust, gallant and always in the run to help damsels and young guys caught in the war of love.
Eros in Taurus:
Eros in the sign of Taurus has little interest in the aggressive ardency of Aries. Taurus is not responsive and he would rather not have to compete with anyone to get what he wants. Eros has a different orientation in this sign, namely, an orientation towards pleasure. That means pure and natural, undiluted personal and sensual gratification.
This pleasure-seeking eye of the bull is ever on the niceties of sensuality whether they be in the dinning room, on the massage table or in a king size bed. He finds joy in tangible pursuits that revolve around making the body feel good as well as the pleasure of acquisition. Taurus can also become ferociously possessive of those pleasures in an extremely dogmatic way.
Eros in Gemini:
Eros in the sign of Gemini thrives on the interaction of ideas, and communication. He likes it known how well he understands a subject and how much he could teach about it. Eros in Gemini wants to hear the words, or receive little cards with messages of love, much more than he wants any material gifts.
Curiosity about how things work, why people behave in a certain way, or where some tradition began all contribute to the stimulating mental atmosphere where Eros in Gemini likes to live. Eros in Gemini has a sense of mental objectivity and a clear need for space. Eros in this sign makes the native do more talking or reading about emotions and romance rather than going out and experiencing it all along by himself/herself.
Eros in Cancer:
In this sign, Eros experiences a certain amount of affinity and ease. Here the boundaries dissolve into a space of intimate rapport where the feelings, emotions, fears, pains and sorrows mingle.
Eros in Cancer longs to be wanted and he craves the significant other’s attention and deep need for attachment. Nurturing, sustaining and mothering all arise with this position.
Eros in Leo:
Eros in Leo. ( in )Fantasies for Eros in Leo often revolve around their partner’s desire for them. These lovers generally get off on what they believe their sex partner must be feeling about them. They can put a lot of time into autoerotic behavior, and are often given to much flirtation and many infatuations. Nevertheless, they can be more loyal than most. Eros in Leo lives for love and attraction. They are threatened when passion settles down in their relationships. They feel the need to keep passion alive, and when it settles in a relationship, they can be addicted to flirting with other people in order to feel alive and potent. Eros in Leo lovers have a big ego investment in their relationships.
Eros in Virgo:
Eros in Virgo has the tendency to analyze intentions and rate them on a scale of one to ten. These qualities of Virgo make him/ her to come with a check list approach to romantic love.
Virgo has tremendous perceptions and is not a sign to hesitate using them on the partner.. Sometimes it turns inward were it manifests as a self-criticism, a damaging trait for the native. Eros in Virgo does have a very lusty and luscious desire nature. The material elements of life appraise high on the scale of importance and that means physical contact, physical nurturing and physical pleasure. Eros in Virgo is not afraid to get close and stay close, if the special other turns out to be good enough for life.
Eros in Libra:
This Eros in Libra wants above all to participate with the partner in many favorite activities. Libra is the sign of personal one-to-one relationships and Eros here has all the longings for the excellence and refinement in life. In this position, life needs to unfold pleasantly and in the company of a beloved other.
Eros in Libra has the ability to objectify life, and enjoys the communication of ideas. Talking , interpreting, counseling and the giving and receiving of feedback all rate high on the list of Libra’s good times. This is a refined position for Eros among all the other signs.
Eros in Scorpio:
Eros in Scorpio speaks bluntly, hurting and wounding partners. His desires are potent, ardent and fixed and often involve a great deal of intense. Eros in this sign is interested in a very personal and erotic form of relationship. They generally do not hold back.
Eros in Scorpio seeks intense and possibly taboo sexual experiences. A total transformation is likely for the partner. Eros here may be in the sign of his greatest affinity. Scorpio relates well to the powerful hungers exhibited by Eros and there is little to modify. Scorpio is not afraid to get too close. He does not shun intimacy, physical or otherwise. He is not nervous about bodily functions, losing his freedom, sharing his emotions or surrendering his mind.
Eros in Sagittarius:
This placement of Eros in Sagittarius needs varied goals for the future and the space, energy, freedom and enthusiasm to live them out. Spontaneous, exuberant, adventurous and fickle, Eros here prefers a lively and challenging experience with the beloved, one that will take him to the four corners of the world. If someone is going to be with Eros in Sagittarius, they best get ready to soar in the skies.
This position of Eros has enormous sexual energy and will become bored if the relationship does not develop into broader and richer potentials. Travel is his watchword. The travel Sagittarius has in mind involves the exploration of any previously unknown realm. This includes symbolic journeys through intellectual concepts, philosophical ideas, spiritual beliefs and artistic creations.
Eros in Capricorn:
This position of Eros in Capricorn has powerful concepts about what is good and what is not. Eros in Capricorn looks for perfection in all quarters of the partner.
Capricorn may sublimate its earthy and ardent desires for sensual contact and intimacy through the ever-present demands of work. Productivity, attainment, and a feeling of self-sufficiency are vital qualities for Capricorn and they like to see them in the partner as well as themselves. Eros in Capricorn has a powerful need to connect in a physical sense and has some objections to intimacy as well. This sign is acknowledged as one of the most difficult to get to know. They do not open up easily and they may not stay open long.
Eros in Aquarius:
This position of Eros carries a high voltage charge with it. Eros in Aquarius desires the weird, the wonderful and the unusual. He thrives on the unexpected and is not fond of the traditional and avoids the beaten track.
Eros in the sign of Aquarius has a disposition bordering on the bizarre. He crosses boundaries as if they did not exist and skips the lines of gender and protocol . Eros in Aquarius gets bored with routine and needs intriguing conversation and somewhat unconventional themes to keep his interest aroused. He also needs a lot of freedom.
Eros in Pisces:
Eros in Pisces wants to lose all sense of where his being ends and another begins. Eros in Pisces desires a return to paradise. He is willing to give up his own identity, allowing it to melt and merge with the beloved until they are no longer distinct but part of a greater whole. Eros here could be in its exaltation, the affinity is that great.
This position of Eros represents the dissolving of the self into the other and all the pain, longing, suffering and ecstasy that process may involve. It suggests the beauty and creativity seen only through the lives of lovers who have touched each other’s spirits.