Libra loves beauty, in all forms and sizes. And, they love to consider themselves "balanced", have an instinctive need to be perfect (authentic and different) and tries not to make any mistake.
In their urge to ensure that they are not unfair with anybody, they try to make peace and get along with everybody - in the most balanced manner. People generally consider Librans as "pushovers" who are always available, and who are agreeable to anyone and anything. The Libra hardly has a private life, for they love to party all the time, or have people over. In an attempt to please all, they tend to stick to others. And in an attempt to balance all, they constantly make judgements about the people they hang out with. They are scared to live alone, or live completely independent - and need lots of people to get along with.
Want to anger a Libra?
Anger is their best kept secret!
Angering Libra might seem impossible as they are masters in concealing their anger, amongst other emotions. However, forcing them to make a quick, concrete decision can work them up into frenzy - especially if the odds are balanced. Arrange a "majority rules" in a group - to decide which restaurant or club to go - then, divide all votes equally so that the Libra's preference becomes the deciding vote. Top it with a short time to decide, to get them completely mad.
If the Libra absolutely hates something, it is unfairness. Treat them or any of their friends unfairly to witness the sparks fly. Organize an occasion and distribute gifts amongst friends, but make sure the Libran gets the worst deal - to watch the fireworks explode!
Libra's righteous revenge
The calm, balanced, diplomatic Libra is not easily angered. They will voluntarily act as mediators for others, helping disputes to be resolved, but this cardinal air sign is not one to forgive wrongdoings on themselves. When it comes to themselves, the Libra cannot handle a "face to face" situation, and escalates the issue into a full-blown war. Thankfully, an irked Libra will shut their adversary out - perhaps till eternity.
However, if an adversary has gone to great lengths in hurting or humiliating them to the extent that they cannot ignore, the Libra will most certainly avenge - to restore the balance, and ensure that justice has been delivered. The Libra's outbursts can be surprisingly "cut-throat" and delivered with precision. However, they will not stoop to the level of their adversary, and chart out a methodical revenge that would make their adversary feel (and agree to) the same pain and humiliation that they have been dealt with.
There is no good or bad about an avenging Libra. Their reaction will be justified, and the punishment will be balanced.
On the other hand, the Libra loves drama. If you have unwittingly hurt a Libra, you can relax. They will simply ignore your action, but judge you in the process. You have to keep hurting them to get them angered - and make them shut you out forever. A sentimental card, an exquisite piece of art, a dramatic apology - may work at times. But don't bet on it, the shutout is mostly forever. What else did you expect?
Testing the Libra endurance
Small, irritating things that no Libra can withstand
|Try to frustrate them with ill mannerism when driving, by talking/shouting to other drivers - like, open the window and start yelling "Look how stupid you came out!", "Move left, and let us pass", "You have your headlights on!", etc.|
|Try doing something in their house that they don't (like smoking, if they do not smoke), with a display of pretentious nobility (like blow the smoke towards an open window).|
|Try leaving the space or stuffs you share with them, in a mess - like: use the bathroom and litter with towels, sponges, and napkins before leaving, or empty the paper or toner of the office photocopier/printer.|
|Try disturbing them when they are sleeping or trying to sleep - like endlessly press the buttons of your keyboard (blip, blip, blip) or listening to music with headphones (vzz, vzz, chuff, chuff) or moving furnitures (screeeeech).|
|Try to have something smelly, like garlic or onion - and come close to them, or hug them, with the smell (of garlic or onion) still undefeated.|
|In general, any attempt to challenge their basic Libran traits, will anger or irritate them. For example: pressurizing them to make a decision, being disrespectful, generalizing or stereotyping anything, being unfair, making them feel inadequate, not giving them space, etc.|
Best way to get them back in mood
For Libra, it is much better to cry in a Mercedes than on a bicycle. Make them a good environment to relieve their psychological distress - play a calming music, fill a glass of wine - and pretend to agree to the dramatic situation that they are in, from which there is no hope or way out. The Libra, being a crypto-reactional, will begin to see thing positively themselves.
Note that the above observations are mere solar-scopic indicators based on generic Libra traits and behaviours, and do not consider the other planets of an individual's Natal Chart required for real Horoscopic readings. Other planets may enhance, suppress, and even nullify certain Libra behaviours.
Also remember, anger is a basic human emotion and revenge is a reaction to anger. Each sign has a different response to anger, with differing approaches. Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) will explode in fury, then be hanging out with you again the next day. Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) will mope around for a while, but get over it if a sincere apology is offered (with the exception of Scorpio, who might never forgive you). Air signs (Libra, Aquarius, Gemini) will distance themselves or resort to the silent treatment. Earth signs (Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo) will not forgive so easily, these signs can hold a grudge for decades depending on the offense.